Service Girls Try Harder by Arthur

Posted by Arthur | Blog, Reader Submissions | Posted on March 11th, 2007

Like most people I have had my fair share of disappointing experiences with hottie gogo girls who are a huge disappointment in bed. I’ve been developing some ideas on predicting if a hot sexy gogo dancer will be anything like as good once barfined, but I have insufficient data on the good ones.

So a couple of nights ago I thought I would test a new theory. Many of the service girls in gogos are good looking. Some used to be dancers but do not dance any more for whatever reason. Others are straight off the farm and are sticking their toes into the bar scene but haven’t taken the plunge yet. And others aren’t good looking enough to dance (although in some bars they seem to accept anyone who walks in the door.)The service girls can be almost invisible to customers as they focus on the dancers. Yet they live in the sex soaked atmosphere of the bar where it’s the main thought morning, noon and night. I decided to find a service girl who seemed good in the bar and if possible barfine her to see if she is better in bed than the average dancer on stage.

I selected Suzie Wong’s on Soi Cowboy for my experiment, mainly because it has a reputation for good shows with hot girls. I was not very impressed with the shows but yes, many of the girls are hot.

When I went in the service girl who seated me and got my first Heineken seemed more interested in scrutinizing her manicure than paying any attention to the customers. That didn’t seem like a good prospect so I looked elsewhere. On the other side of the bar a couple of the service girls were fooling around pretending to fight. They seemed to have a bit of spirit and gave the impression they weren’t unhappy to be working that night.

I guessed that both of them were a bit too plump to be dancing. Not fat but they clearly liked their food. Suzie Wong’s has a high average level of beauty amongst the dancers and some of them are amazing. There’s one I am not sure was born female but she’s a very athletic and enthusiastic dancer. (#8: anyone know who I mean?)

So I made sure to get my second drink with the slightly plump but attractive service girl. I’ll call her Nok. The bar wasn’t busy so she was happy to sit with me – although she thought her job then was to go and get the dancer or dancers I really wanted to sit with. She looked genuinely happy when I said: ‒no, I like you”.

Nok is 25, from Sakhon Nakhon and said she’d worked in Suzie Wong’s for three months. She lives above the bar with a load of other girls. We started fooling around and kissing and she got the idea that yes, I really was interested in her. I noted a few sideways glances from dancers who seemed to think that service girls, and junior ones at that, shouldn’t be sitting with customers. Occasionally Nok had to go and serve customers but overall she was able to spend more time with me than a dancer who has to say ‒I go dance” every ten minutes or so, regardless that you may just have brought her a drink or whatever.

Within ten minutes a mamasan appeared and asked if I wanted to barfine Nok. I don’t like that policy. I prefer to negotiate any barfine directly with the girl and not be rushed into it. So I smiled and said ‒maybe”, and then ignored her in the hopes she would take the hint. She did, but a few minutes later another mamasan asked the same question. I refused to be drawn. Meanwhile Nok and I got on great, so in my own time I asked her about a barfine. She was happy to accept, so I called a mamasan over and was asked to pay 600B there and then. Most places add the barfine to your bill, but not here.

About the same time one of the dancers was being barfined by a customer sitting next to me. It was classic: when she was with him she was all smiles and suggestive moves. When he turned away or went to the restroom she took off her game face and looked bored and listless.

In contrast Nok made me feel it was the greatest thing for me to pay bar for her. She rushed to get changed and came back to sit with me. I wanted to watch the famous lesbian show so we stayed for that. If I’d been alone I would have moved to a seat at stage-side for an up close and personal look, but I was happy enough with Nok.

One cool thing – as we left the bar together all the dancers and service girls clapped and cheered. I thought that was a nice touch.

Back at my apartment Nok was just great. One good thing: she was not shy: she didn’t wrap herself tightly in a towel and refuse to show me anything of her body until the lights were off. Sure she was a bit plump and clearly had a child (5 year old daughter it turned out) but in bed she was horny and enthusiastic – positively tireless in fact. We started about midnight and she was still great an hour later. I thought that it was 99% sure that the hottie who’d been barfined about the same time as Nok was back at home now. Nok was only getting started. I think it was 3:30am before we slept. And at 7am she was touching me and wanting a second round. Surely this wasn’t the first time she had been with a farang in her three months of working. She knew what she was doing but wasn’t so expert that I felt she was just running through her script to get me off as quickly as possible. Just what I like in fact.

She didn’t mind at all staying all night – indeed she stayed all the next morning and I only got her out and back to Soi Cowboy because she was hungry and a mamasan was calling to find out where she was.

Very unusually for me I barfined her the next night because she was so good and so enthusiastic. I don’t like the management style at Suzie Wong, but Nok made the annoying mamasans worth enduring. Of course, now I have barfined her it will be hard to take anyone else from that bar. But that’s OK, she is fun and I am sure I will be back to see her.