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So I’m Dating a Virgin, but I Still Have Needs by morefun

Posted by John Obama | Reader Submissions | Posted on August 8th, 2006

I have been on holiday in Bangkok for 2.5 months. Over that time I have partaken in many Thai ladies ranging from the gogos, bar girls, free lancers (paid and unpaid) and somewhat normal Thai ladies. I have been having the time of my life and the sex has been incredible. But, as good as it is at times the drama that accompanies these girls can be a little draining. So when I met a proper 26 year old Thai lady, with a good job, I was ready to give a ‘normal’ relationship a try.

Our first few dates were double dates to restaurants, clubs and even
the beach. The beach was rough for me as I have been missing daylight
on a regular basis. These dates were fun, but there was no hand
holding, let alone kissing or anything else. More dates have passed
but still minimal physical contact besides the ‘accidental’ brush of an
arm or leg. I really am fine with this as I had gotten a little
annoyed with the bar girls and she is good company. The other perk is
that when necessary I can go out with her, then hit the late night
Sukhumvit bars to find a much needed beautiful free lancer. This has
allowed me to carry on a gentleman approach to this proper Thai lady.

On this Saturday night I was out with my proper lady. I had not been
with a lady since Tuesday. This is a monumental feat for me as in my
two months here I have indulged almost every night. We had a nice date
of coffee, a movie, dinner and desert. So by 9:00pm I was exhausted
and ready to go out with my friends. I tried to end the date, but to
my surprise she wanted to come back to my room.

I put on some music and decided on some Sinatra. We started to
‘ballroom’ dance (I know this is lame, but I wanted some contact).
After a little time I leaned deep in for a kiss and got a major pull
back. She said she had never been in a man’s room before. I was ok
without kissing and we continued dancing (by the way I have no idea how
to ballroom dance). At this point I’m not sure if I want to go down a
sexual road with her as all of my relationships end bad, and she is a
nice girl. But, I guess we can figure this out later. After another
hour I was yawning and she said she would go home so I could sleep.

I immediately called my friend who was at Soi Cowboy with two dancers.
They were both hot and I was ready to go. I think my friend liked both
girls (He even told me he did), but we decided to each barfine one and
go to a late night Sukhumvit club. More of our friends came and I
danced with my girl and we all kept drinking. My friend was ready to
leave with his girl and I was ready to leave with mine. At this point
she said that she had her period and asked if that was ok. I said yes
as I could think of two other orifices that would work.

When we got outside she said she was going home. I was in a state of
shock. I think I am the first man to strike out after barfining a
girl. I don’t know if dating a virgin has caused me to lose my edge,
but this is unacceptable failure to close the deal. I went to meet my
friends at the next late night place. They were surprised to see me
and shocked at the rejection.

As I walked in a saw a lady leaving and we looked at each other like we
knew each other. We talked for a bit and established she was not a
working girl, but worked as a bartender at a major hotel. She asked if
I wanted to come to a birthday party (it’s 5:00 am now) with her
friends. She said we had to lie and pretend like we were long time
friends (I have only been here 2 months). I was fine with this small
condition as I would do anything to have sex at this point.

We were in her friends car when I get a text from my friend thanking me
for giving the girl to him after barfining her. He said he was going
to have a three some with the two girls and my girl would just blow
him. For my ego I have to assume she wanted to be with the other girl
and did not chose my friend over me. This was shocking and even though
my confidence was shot I had not had sex in 4 days and it only
motivated me more to close the deal with my current lady.

We went to the party and I was amazed to see an actual birthday party
with decorations, food, gambling (a three card game I have never seen
before), alcohol and about 20 Thai’s at 5:30am.

We left at about 6:30 and played around the issue of coming back with
me. She came back and we were both tired as we got into bed. At 7:00
am, we started kissing and she asked the question ?How many women have
I been with?” This is a ridiculous question and I never answer it,
especially at 7:00 am. She doesn’t drop the question. I tried three
times to advance on her I am denied. Shocking, am I Job or something?
So I decide it is time for bed and I roll over. I fall asleep
immediately only to awaken five minutes later with her kissing my neck.

Now, it’s on. The clothes start coming off (I was already naked when I
got into bed) and her feeble attempts of ‘maybe we should wait’ are
easily dismissed. We have amazing sex and she was incredible. I came
as if it were my first week in Bangkok. Now of course I am exhausted
and I was barely awake long enough to take off the condom and turn up
the air-conditioning as I was sweating profusely (this would come back
to hurt me).

I awoke several hours later freezing with no blankets. I looked over
to my lady and she had the comforter wrapped around her. I think I
have gotten soft from dating the virgin and I let her keep the
comforter. I grabbed a towel and I used it as my blanket (pathetic, I
know, but I was content).

At 2:00pm she was getting dressed to go to work at 3:00pm. I was not
content, but rock hard. She was already dressed and I was still
naked. The only logical question, given the situation was ?Can you
suck my cock before you go?” Her reply, after a few seconds, was ?Yes,
but you have to be quick because I have to go.” Once again this
request can be handled given my backload.

She gave me an amazing blow job. In just a couple minutes I came in
her mouth, and she took it like a champ. Now I could finally relax.
She went to work and I had a chance to ponder.

Now I can go back to my virgin and carry on a respectable
relationship. I also have my new girl, who is great, and works until
1:00am every night. My attempt to stay away from the bar girls and
other ladies has been unsuccessful. Also, if I am going to continue
the relationship with my virgin they will be essential. I was very
naïve to think I could have one without the other.