It Doesn’t Matter How Hard She Tries… by Arthur
Posted by Arthur | Blog, Reader Submissions | Posted on March 19th, 2007
A couple of weeks ago I visited the Beer Garden and picked up a very sweet young lady. Kung is 22, from Chiang Mai, with very light skin and a good attitude.
Kung took great care of me, staying for nigh on three hours. We were both tired and happy when I took her home.
She called me next morning and asked if she could come and see me again. I made an excuse: ‒no more money for boom-boom” and wished her good luck at the Beer Garden. In fact the reason was that no matter how beautiful she was or how great her passion and technique, I like variety. That’s one of the many reasons I live here.
I have sympathy for Kung. She did her very best, but I think I am typical. Men love variety and 9 times out of 10 we will choose a new experience over a sure thing.
But I wonder if my reaction contributes to bad attitudes on the part of the working ladies?










Had her in August, and no, your attitude didn’t spoil her. She was nice and attentive, had two goes as agreed, though not really a GFE.
Unless she’s been working for extremely short time (under a month) when you met her, I don’t think what you do makes the least bit of difference — she’s pretty much seen it all. It all comes down to character — some girls really like to please, and just don’t care.
I find that even if I don’t repeat an experience, I treat the girls that like to please much better, and tend to be a more rough and demanding with the starfishes. If most punters are like that, so having a nice attitude helps.
View all comments by Crocodile
You had her you paid her contract fulfilled she has no further claim on your loyalties.
I always treat the girls with respect and make a real effort to ensure the experience is not unpleasant for them (I usually have a girl for a couple of days) I have had a couple who were clingy but have many more who now chat to me with no agenda when I enter their bar.
View all comments by Bill