Big Mango Bar
drink and blog

It should be free…

Posted by sideshowBOB | Blog, Reader Submissions | Posted on December 8th, 2006

Ran into some US boys on the balcony the other night who wanted a little advice for how to play Bangkok. It was there first night in town. I always find popping the cherry to be one of the most enjoyable things in BKK, reminds me of when I first came to Bkk, but I did not have the time to take them out so instead I gave them my crash course and what I would do. Seems one of the guys kept prodding his friend to admit one of his hangups. I was like what is it? He said he was not into paying for sex.

I was like cool. U should probably leave Nana then. Just kidding. He
said he just had issues with it and wanted to know how to play it all
instead. I was like cool. Just party and have fun. He said yeah but the
girls acted like they wanted him. Sure dude. They all want u in Nana.
He was suffering from the I am cute and young syndrome so therefore I
should not have to pay to get some. Not in the go gos dude. They are
working. We are all cute and young in Nana. In fact – we have written
about this many times. Older and bigger pocketbook type of guys do even
better.

So I was not trying to rub it into this guy but I just came out
and asked him. Are u wanting to get laid while u are here? He said -
fuck yeah. Okay. How long are u here for? He said 2 weeks. Most of it
in the islands. Okay. I told him that he needed to focus on the white
chicks who were here on holiday then cause just like him they were
looking to get laid. He said he wanted to shag a Thai bird. I was like
then go to the clubs, discos, malls and pubs to see what u can sort
out. If it looks like within minutes/hours that the girl is into u then
chances are she is some sort of freelancer or working girl. Meaning she
wants money for sex. She is working. Not a big issue but if one is
morally against paying for sex then this option may not be the one.

Hethen went on to say won’t one of the non-working girls find him
attractive enough and will put out. I said not likely. I told him
myself and friends have courted non-working girls for weeks at a time
while we get nothing more than pecks on the cheeks. Of course that is
not to say it won’t happen(he may run into a freebird) but the chances
are slim. Then he went on to say he would lie about being on vacation
and pretend he is living here looking for a girlfriend. I thought about
that angle and realized that chances are it could work if he met
someone straight off and worked it but he would have to stay put and
focus on it. But I thought that it was a little mean but doable.

Then Istarted laughing at him realizing he would go through all this work and
spend more money then just paying a bar fine and short timing. Seems to
me it is a little cruel as well. My guess is he will try and strike out
- potentially meet a horny Aussie girl on vacation or give in and pay
for some sex. Which would be less painful to some nice Thai girl who
thought she was meeting potential boyfriend material. Tough call I
guess but I usually am not into deceiving someone as a way to get sex.
Bkk can mess people up though since the girls all smile at u, will
speak with u and maybe even give u a number but most of the times if
she is not a working girl this will not lead to immediate sex but some
people have a hard time dealing with how nice they are.

Happy hunting…